Another Year Over
Looking back at my posts this time last year, I wonder if there’s a reason I didn’t post a New Years Eve post. Usually I spend a whole heap of time reflecting on the meaning of life, the direction I’m taking and my relationships yet this time last year I was in a very un-sentimental frame of mind. Perhaps this was due to watching too much BSG and Sarah Connor Chronicles, or it might have been a sense of fatalism about life in general. In 2008, I dropped out of a whole heap of stuff I’d been doing in order to just earn an income and have time to look after kids. In truth I felt like the particular tack I’d been taking was the wrong one so it was a relief to drop it yet I was then faced with the question of what I was going to do instead.
Sometime during this year, I started to look at things differently and developed a little bit of a framework on how I was going to move forward. My thinking was that instead of trying to change things and wasting a whole lot of energy on moving immovable objects, I should look for opportunities as they came and take advantage of them. Instead of spending all my energy focussed on the things I didn’t have, I should look at all the things I did have and see what I could do with them. In some ways it’s about taking the path of least resistance but I like to think of it as guiding my (awesome looking) space ship through the asteroid field by heading for the gaps instead of trying to push all the rocks out of the way.
Anyway, maybe this philosophy is how we ended up here in Sale. Steph had the opportunity to work pretty much anywhere in Australia, we knew we would come out in front if we sold the house and we figured that we didn’t have a lot to lose as we weren’t exactly living The Life in Forest Lake. Now we are in Sale, we’ve reconfigured the game and we’ll see what presents itself in 2010.
So how about you lot out there? Any thoughts on where 2010 might be taking you? I’m off to buy the beer and wine for a small gathering that seems to have eventuated at our place so I’ll bid you a happy new year, be safe and I’ll see you on the other side.
UPDATE: I did write a new years post last year, don’t know how I missed it the first time I looked for it. It’s a bit more up-beat than I remember feeling at the time. I stand by those comments on parenthood. It can be a drag but it’s worth it.