SCC: Parenting / Mothering and Juno
I was feeling a bit sad about how The Sarah Connor Chronicles are not on this week when I suddenly got something about the characters. I was reflecting on how SCC is one of the few science fiction / action shows that has dealt with parenting issues. In the last episode, The Tower is High but the Fall is Short we saw parenting approached from the point of view of Sarah Connor as well as Catherine Weaver. Then it dawned on me: Catherine Weaver is the mirror reflection of Sarah Connor in some ways: Sarah is a human with a teenage son with a world changing destiny and an adopted robot daughter. Catherine is a robot with an AI child who has a world changing destiny (The Turk) and a human daughter. Both Catherine and Sarah face the challenges of how to be a good parent. We’re not sure whether Catherine feels anything about her parenting role but we know Sarah wants to help her son become what he must be and tries to curb Cameron’s killer instincts and her extreme rationality.
From what I can tell, mothering doesn’t always come naturally. I also watched the movie Juno recently which tells the story of a teenage mother to be and contrasts her with two other women, her step-mother who has her own daughter and the women whom Juno has chosen to adopt her child once it is born. While the film is mostly a coming of age story about Juno, I was fascinated by Jennifer Garner’s character Veronica who desperately wants to be a mother but is forced to adopt. Veronica spends much of the film obsessing about the baby’s room and Juno’s health etc… When Veronica finally receives the baby at the hospital she asks Juno’s step-mum how she looks: “You look like a new mother: Terrified!” is the response.
So I’m glad that shows like the Sarah Connor Chronicles can show a different view from the “happy families” image that we often see on television because the reality whilst sometimes being in a happy playful place is also often in that terrified place where the weight of responsibility and “I don’t know what the fuck I’m doing” dominates. Hearing stories that confirm that not everyone finds it easy is comforting and allows us to accept ourselves and our parenting when we feel we are doing a less than perfect job.
Having said that, I feel I should mention that the fear factor has been greatly lessened the second time around and we’ve enjoyed the ride all of the way so far. I was just commenting last night as our daughter got into the second hour of her sleep deprived teething rage that I was feeling quite relaxed knowing that this is just part of the deal and how three years ago in this situation with our first baby I was freaking out and wondering what had happened to my life.
[tags]juno, motherhood, parenting, sarah connor chronicles[/tags]